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The 4 Stages of Competence
Prime your team for upskilling and reskilling

Morning friend ☕️
Hope all the moms were well pampered yesterday for Mother’s Day.
Well deserved foot rubs, flowers, and a brief break from the daily grind.
I wanted to cook something impressively delicious…
But alas, the kitchen is not my area of expertise
A classic case of conscious incompetence.
One of the mental models that helped me build my Growth Mindset ( Do you have a Growth Mindset? ) is the 4 stages of competence model.
It’s a very useful model to frame skill acquisition for both yourself and your team.
Today, we have the bumbling and unconsciously incompetent Michael Scott from The Office here for some quips and entertainment.
Grab your coffee ☕️
Let’s chat!

It’s a framing and mindset challenge
Everyone Starts Stupid. Good Managers Know What Happens Next
“The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance. It is the illusion of knowledge.”
– Stephen Hawking
Let’s be honest: Most of us think we’re better than we are.
At powerpoint. At delegation. At conflict resolution (read: passive-aggressive emails).
There’s a reason for this delusion:
Sometimes, we don’t know what we don’t know.
Real mastery of a skill involves 4 distinct phases, and just knowing these stages gives you an edge (confidence) to persevere through the process.
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You’re Not ‘There’ Yet. Here’s the Map.
Sahil Bloom uses the word "yet" to promote a growth mindset.
He emphasizes that achieving something is a process, not a destination.
And that current limitations are not insurmountable:
The word "yet" will completely change your life.
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) October 23, 2023
It's the key to a growth mindset:
"I'm not good enough" becomes "I'm not good enough...yet."
"I don't know how to do it" becomes "I don't know how to do it...yet."
"I'm not capable of that" becomes "I'm not capable of… pic.twitter.com/mmE1frp1b0
Let’s walk through the 4 stages of competence, and assume you’re managing people in all four.
Unconscious Incompetence
They have no idea they’re lacking the skill.Conscious Incompetence
They now know they’re bad at it.Conscious Competence
They can do it, but only with focus, and conscious mental effortUnconscious Competence
They’ve mastered it to the point where it feels mentally effortless.

The 4 Stages of Competence
Check out this short video explanation of the model:
Fake It, Break It, Learn It: The Dirty Truth About Competence
As a manager, your job is to get results.
And in today’s fast paced world, you need to get your team comfortable with upskilling and reskilling in order to deliver those results.
You have to move people from Stage 1 to Stage 4 without breaking them (or yourself) in the process.
That means:
Spotting the loud and wrong early
Celebrating the awkwardness of learning
Teaching the unconscious masters to slow down and explain to the others
Creating a culture where sucking temporarily is safer than faking forever
Because when people fake competence, bad things happen.
Budgets explode. Projects collapse.
The manager gets blamed.
What you can do as Manager
The key is to ingrain this model with your team, so upskilling and reskilling is seen as a challenge with clear stages leading up to mastery.
Work with each team member to assess where they are, develop a plan of action, and then use feedback/reflection to course-correct as needed.

Constant upskilling and reskilling is the new reality in the age of AI
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Summary
Upskilling and reskilling is a necessity with the pace of change we are experiencing.
Framing this well helps you and your team navigate the process with confidence.
Normalize the 4 Stages of Competence model with your team.
Make it okay to say “I don’t know, yet”.
Make it an expectation that your people work towards mastery of their required skills (unconscious competence).
That’s it for today, friend.
Till next monday!
Vaugan
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Constant upskilling and reskilling is the new norm
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